Dr. Allison Answers
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Are you a worrier? A Psychologist's Creative Take on the not so Helpful Habit
Listen to my podcast episode on Optimal Living Daily here: oldpodcast.com/1081-a-simple-act-of-kindness-by-dr-allison-niebes-davis-of-dr-allison-answers-on-feeling-heard-and-noticed/
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A Psychologist Changes How She Views Herself And How You Can Too
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Listen to my podcast episode on Optimal Living Daily here: oldpodcast.com/1081-a-simple-act-of-kindness-by-dr-allison-niebes-davis-of-dr-allison-answers-on-feeling-heard-and-noticed/ For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up to date by joining my weekly newsletter: mailchi.mp/56a31...
Bad at Boundaries? A Psychologist’s 5 Favorite Tips for Holding Firm
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For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up to date by joining my weekly newsletter: mailchi.mp/56a3120923c4/anxiety Follow me: Facebook: drallisonanswers Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/drallisondavis/ Instagram: drallisondavis My Must Read Book List Grit: a...
What no one will tell you about boundaries A Psychologist keeps it real.
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For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up to date by joining my weekly newsletter: mailchi.mp/56a3120923c4/anxiety Follow me: Facebook: drallisonanswers Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/drallisondavis/ Instagram: drallisondavis My Must Read Book List Grit: a...
Anxiety is Your Imagination? A Psychologist Explains
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For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up to date by joining my weekly newsletter: mailchi.mp/56a3120923c4/anxiety Follow me: Facebook: drallisonanswers Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/drallisondavis/ Instagram: drallisondavis My Must Read Book List Grit: a...
Should We Really Go Back to Normal? What a Psychologist Thinks.
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It's been 14 long months since the pandemic first took hold. We’ve done lockdowns and quarantines, and nearly every area of our life has been turned upside down. But now, we're beginning to see a light at the end of the tunnel. We're talking about going back to normal. But is going back to normal really a good thing? Today I'm sharing why you might want to think twice. For more content like thi...
The real reason this psychologist took a year off YouTube. (and why she encourages you to as well)
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I disappeared from UA-cam for an entire year. In this video, I’m getting real about where I’ve been and why I left you hanging. Plus, I’m sharing the important message you need to hear if you’ve disappeared or dropped off in the last year. For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up ...
A Psychologist Reacts to Therapy in TV and Movies. Truth or Drama?
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For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up to date by joining my weekly newsletter: mailchi.mp/56a3120923c4/anxiety Follow me: Facebook: drallisonanswers Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/drallisondavis/ Instagram: drallisondavis My Must Read Book List Grit: a...
Coronavirus Anxiety: A Psychologist’s Tips to Keep Panic and Fear from Taking Over
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Anxiety around COVID-19 is palpable in nearly every environment, with millions of people on edge. The anxiety over this pandemic has gone from the edges of our minds to the very center. Learn five strategies essential to helping you cope during this time of fear, panic, and overwhelming anxiety. For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Ge...
Calm App Review 2020: A Psychologist's Honest Opinion
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Wondering if the Calm app is really worth it? Find out in my UPDATED 2020 review! I'm breaking down a bunch of the app's features, including some you might not even know exist! For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visit my website at drallisonanswers.com. Get my free ULTIMATE guide to tackling ANXIETY and Stay up to date by joining my weekly newsletter: mailchi.mp/56a3120923c...
Simplified Psychology with Dr. Allison
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I’m Dr. Allison. I’m a licensed clinical psychologist, and I’ve made it my life mission to simplify psychology, helping you live the healthy and meaningful life you totally deserve. Life throws out some pretty tough stuff. And while you don’t always get a say in what life throws your way, you absolutely have a say in how you respond. And that’s where I come in. As a psychologist, I’ve got the i...
How to Stop Procrastinating. A Psychologist’s Trick for Tackling “I’ll Do It Later.”
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Procrastination might seem like a silly little habit, but if you’re a chronic procrastinator, then you know how much damage can be caused by putting things off. “I’ll do it later. I’ll take care of it tomorrow. I’ll get to it when I have more time." This waiting becomes a habit, and before you know it, this habit becomes a way of life. Procrastination is sneaky and tricky, and it's a hard habit...
Do You Really Need a Mindfulness App? A Psychologist Weighs In.
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These days, it seems like everyone is talking about mindfulness. And like nearly everything else these days...THERE'S AN APP FOR THAT! Apps like Headspace, Calm, and Insight Timer are designed to help you start paying attention and practicing mindfulness. But are these apps worth the hype? Do you really NEED a mindfulness app? As a psychologist, I'm weighing in! For more content like this, subs...
Should Statements. How they are making you feel like crap.
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You probably use the word "should" 20 times a day. And you probably think it'll help motivate you. But the word should is more dangerous than you think. Watch and learn how should statements are sneaky and how they're subtly making you feel like CRAP. Plus, learn what you can say instead and how it'll help you feel a whole lot better! For more content like this, subscribe to my channel and visi...
Dreading the Holidays? 7 Helpful Ways to Get Through the Season.
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The holidays are just around the corner. For some people, the holidays are wonderful and full of holiday cheer. But for others, the holidays can be incredibly difficult. While the rest of the world seems to be festive and cheerful, you’re dreading what the season will bring. If this time of year feels hard for you, if you’re dreading the holidays, then you’re in the right place. Watch to learn ...
Emotional Check-ins: Why You Need Them
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Emotional Check-ins: Why You Need Them
Why You Procrastinate
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Why You Procrastinate
Convinced things will go wrong before you even start? This simple tip will help.
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Convinced things will go wrong before you even start? This simple tip will help.
How to Deal with Regret
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How to Deal with Regret
Does Online Therapy Work?
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Does Online Therapy Work?
The Technology Hack Your Brain is Begging You to Make
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The Technology Hack Your Brain is Begging You to Make
Got a Dream But Having Trouble Getting Started? The Message You Need to Hear!
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Got a Dream But Having Trouble Getting Started? The Message You Need to Hear!
All or Nothing Thinking: How It’s Making you More Anxious, Angry, and All Around Unhappy.
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All or Nothing Thinking: How It’s Making you More Anxious, Angry, and All Around Unhappy.
Why I'm the Worst YouTuber Ever
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Why I'm the Worst UA-camr Ever
Why Being Bad is Good
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Why Being Bad is Good
Can Meditation Cure Anxiety?
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Can Meditation Cure Anxiety?
Why You Need to Celebrate Small Wins
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Why You Need to Celebrate Small Wins
The Superpower That’s Making Your Anxiety Worse
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The Superpower That’s Making Your Anxiety Worse
How to Find Your Passion
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How to Find Your Passion
How to Find a Therapist
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How to Find a Therapist

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  • @BlabbermouthRex
    @BlabbermouthRex 4 дні тому

    Even when they ask for it and you give it to them without hesitation? Walk away. Some people are just too toxic.

  • @allisonrogers2827
    @allisonrogers2827 5 днів тому

    I DONT LIKE MYSELF FOR WHAT I DID TO MYSELF MANY YEARS AGO AS A YOUNG MOM, I ACTED WAY TOO HASTILY AND DIDNT LISTEN TO MY SPOUSE WHO IS A WONDERFUL PERSON! IT WAS JUST STUPID AND VERY WRONG! I really need to focus on the here and now and the many and truly blessings in my life, this planet is not my eternal home! 😢

  • @anishdhakal158
    @anishdhakal158 5 днів тому

    what if they accept the apology but are totally different person now 🤔

  • @ukaszw.6085
    @ukaszw.6085 6 днів тому

    Thanks, it was very refreshing

  • @heyyy1325
    @heyyy1325 13 днів тому

    I really love your healthy approach towards emotions! Not viewing them as good or bad, but rather, just neutral and with a PURPOSE. Thank you this helped me sooo much just subscribed :)

  • @WatchmeNaNaaa
    @WatchmeNaNaaa 21 день тому

    God is love

  • @WatchmeNaNaaa
    @WatchmeNaNaaa 21 день тому

    vibe😎

  • @WatchmeNaNaaa
    @WatchmeNaNaaa 21 день тому

    What fun! yum😊

  • @stushShulamite
    @stushShulamite 28 днів тому

    Some people won’t even allow you to approach them to apologize. 🤷🏽‍♀️🇨🇦

  • @bharat7748
    @bharat7748 Місяць тому

    I hope you will reply my gf is angry from me because I have not taken her name in a function where I was asked to tell who's important to me. I just not wanted her name to be taken publically because I wanna kept it a secret now she's angry saying that if I am not important for you why are you coming to me over n over again go to those whose name you have taken. I really love her 😢. Please guide me she have blocked me she is not listening to me she is not even responding to my group messages.

  • @alizo3
    @alizo3 Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @misfit3470
    @misfit3470 Місяць тому

    Can online therapy be a full time job? Please reply

  • @treehousemafia
    @treehousemafia Місяць тому

    Thank you for making me feel better, because my family is trying to manipulate me into thinking the division in our family is due to me not accepting my sisters insincere apology. They are now trying to punish me for not accepting my sisters apology by not including me in their life. I don't care to be with them and I'm not 10 years old so all it does is make me glad to not be around the drama. I have done all I can do and they all have done the 'do not dos'. It was just as you said, and affected me just like you predicted. They should have respected my space and time to think.

  • @lilla3716
    @lilla3716 Місяць тому

    I do think that no one should pay to meditate. You can find lots of videos for free on UA-cam. I used Balance , Headspace and Calm before. You don’t need them actually to learn meditation. Of course there is nothing wrong with them , but you can meditate without spending money on it. :)

  • @luzukom213
    @luzukom213 Місяць тому

    I woke up 6.30AM and did some devotions and prayer. Hooray!

  • @JoshLynn-kv8mn
    @JoshLynn-kv8mn Місяць тому

    I try to assume the best. Most of my family has high anxiety 😂

  • @jblabs8651
    @jblabs8651 Місяць тому

    If she apologize with attitudes thats not an apology. They should come nack a nother time when they really mean it

  • @monosuitcase
    @monosuitcase 2 місяці тому

    (sigh) complicated life

  • @KerryMcKenzie-hy3lm
    @KerryMcKenzie-hy3lm 2 місяці тому

    I’ve messed up a lot with someone very close to me and apologizing was a headache since 😢I had to do it countless times I just pray this helps and she forgives me

  • @vinusundarv1648
    @vinusundarv1648 2 місяці тому

    My friend who I had argued with and not talked with for quite a while finally called me today to go do watering activity together and was even honest about her plans and appeared comfortable talking to me. That's a win babe

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 2 місяці тому

    Amazing!Binge watch all your content:)))Love it so much, can you please come back to youtube?:)❤

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 2 місяці тому

    You are amazing❤❤❤❤

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 2 місяці тому

    Very helpful❤❤Please, dr Alison, come back to youtube❤Your videos are so precious❤

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 2 місяці тому

    "There is no such things as bad emotions". Love it❤

  • @ashtonparkband
    @ashtonparkband 3 місяці тому

    I just now came across your writings and your videos. I'm happy I found it. It's nice to know that you're here and thanks for spending your time to bring this good information. 😊✌️

  • @Carlos.M726
    @Carlos.M726 3 місяці тому

    The cure for anxiety is Dr Allison ,just breath deeply , listen her beautiful voice and look at her pretty face

  • @alexandraf6728
    @alexandraf6728 3 місяці тому

    Regret is the ego not willing to accept the shadow.

  • @piak78
    @piak78 3 місяці тому

    ❤i use this when i go down the dark spiral. I have deep insecurities and fears about my husband and i use this to soothe myself. Thanku

  • @GermanIzer86
    @GermanIzer86 3 місяці тому

    Doc. What would be an example of something that cannot be excused? Something we could apologize for but we should not expect forgiveness?

  • @GermanIzer86
    @GermanIzer86 3 місяці тому

    I liked the beginning & the idea of re-visiting. I am just missing the recommendation when it is enough. Some people get in a vicious circle of apologizing and the others just reject or demand constant compensation, like a sort og punishment. Doc, what do we do in such cases? Tell them & walk away?

  • @mohibquadri4053
    @mohibquadri4053 3 місяці тому

    Too Good 💎 Could you suggest some best books to read for tackling self doubt and increasing self belief in testing times and uncertainty like job search process after a big career gap and gain momentum without being stuck in inaction or uncertainty..

  • @Stardust-uc4lr
    @Stardust-uc4lr 3 місяці тому

    What about someone wanting to not understand i messed up because of my mental health problems and not talking to me even after i explained it is not me but my condition. I know i hurt him but in that moment i was ill mentally. I think he believes i just don’t want to take accountability or something. Even after explaining it is not me but my condition he want talk to me. I feel punished for something i have no control over.

  • @Tusharthakur-kz9vc
    @Tusharthakur-kz9vc 3 місяці тому

    Is it childhood pattern or developed along our growth can i know doctor?

  • @miller5170
    @miller5170 3 місяці тому

    The Office when Michael tries to give a check to the lady bc of the “watermark on the paper” lol she says I don’t accept and he ends up telling her off not funny in real life but this was a funny episode lol

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 3 місяці тому

    PLEASE COME Back to UA-cam, YOUR VIDEOS ARE SO HELPFUL❤😊

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 3 місяці тому

    Please come back❤❤❤❤❤

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 3 місяці тому

    Pleaseee come back to youtube❤❤❤

  • @user-hw1yu9hh8f
    @user-hw1yu9hh8f 3 місяці тому

    First, congratulations on being a mom. You’re gonna make a great one. ^^ umm, I really hope you make a video about anxiety when it comes to relationships. Idk if u already made something about it but i mean, I really have trouble with getting triggered by fundamentals that are keeping me away even from forming anything with anyone i like with peace. I have fear of getting insecurely attached to ppl. I’ve never been close to anybody. Never been in a relationship or had a close friendship with anyone. Idk how to handle these things i mean n dunno anything that would help me cope .. at least till i get to be able to see a therapist. Thank you!

  • @kathryndemarco7040
    @kathryndemarco7040 3 місяці тому

    So I’m not sure there’s anxiety or worry when I go to the worst case scenario. It’s more about keeping my eyes open for all the pitfalls or obstacles. Not necessarily expecting the outcome to actually be the worst case.

  • @user-jt7kw1sp6l
    @user-jt7kw1sp6l 3 місяці тому

    I love your content. I've never sought therapy but recently I've felt like it would be beneficial I feel anxious pretty constantly. I feel like no one I know talks about therapy and I wish more people would fight to make it more normal. Keep making videos I just subbed but I definitely find your input helpful and you deserve so many more viewers honestly but even helping the amount of people you are helping through youtube, it's still worth it.

  • @Mehmin241
    @Mehmin241 4 місяці тому

    IT WORKED THANKYOU

  • @user-kq4xr2lo1z
    @user-kq4xr2lo1z 4 місяці тому

    Detox tools to change your life is its True ?

  • @Kathy-Daniel
    @Kathy-Daniel 4 місяці тому

    I really appreciate your content. Subscribed. Keep up the good work.

  • @vinodputhenparampil9780
    @vinodputhenparampil9780 5 місяців тому

    I argued with my teacher and I apologized but she is not accepting it. I feel bad

  • @jadegarner3357
    @jadegarner3357 5 місяців тому

    How can I apply this to a break up? I apologized but was left on read? I broke up with him and apologized for some mean things I said. Everyone is telling he doesn’t owe me anything nor does he have to take me my apology & reply which is true, but how do I deal with the rejection?

    • @suethin8061
      @suethin8061 4 місяці тому

      it would have been better to apologize in person. But for now, you should just leave him some space and revisit the issue about a week later.

  • @bsdtux
    @bsdtux 5 місяців тому

    This is so helpful. I was looking for something like this after an argument with my partner and she told me I had a habbit of going worst case scenario.

  • @50shadesofskittles9
    @50shadesofskittles9 5 місяців тому

    You're a psychologist but you don't know how annoying it is to pay attention to somebody that's looking away from you? When professionals want to show off that they have more than one camera they look into the other camera. You would never see this on TV. Why do UA-camrs do it?

  • @hopscotch1019
    @hopscotch1019 5 місяців тому

    GOD BLESS YOU FOR MAKING THESE - thanks , 🫡🇺🇸

  • @celiaescalante
    @celiaescalante 5 місяців тому

    Should I apologize for treating him like if he were my son, by giving him tips? Should you apologize when you are being generous? He didn't ask for anything.

  • @celiaescalante
    @celiaescalante 5 місяців тому

    I actually wasn't disappointed with a new soulmate who shares my affinity for music and academics. I was proud of myself for trying to see if he was interested in me. So, I said, "I love honesty and there's no problem." I was not prepared to be blocked afterwards, but I realize that he must have been in a dark place to block me. I shouldn't take it personally. In fact, I can't because him blocking me after an apology makes no sense. Well, he had looked into my eyes deeply and touched my shoulders. So, maybe I was supposed to tell him that it does matter because I was able to tell that he is attracted to me. I'm not sure, but maybe getting blocked is just misplaced anger.